IT WAS midweek, when work is half done and finding some downtime is a shot in the dark. But when Nikki Gomez called to invite me to a book launch, we cleared our schedules to show up and support his new work.
Nikki and his wife, Neng, are among the couples I felt a deep kinship with more than two decades ago. We might not see each other often, but I hold enduring admiration for their dedication to family and community.
So last Wednesday, seated beside close friend Patmei Bello Ruivivar and Ms. Marilyn Roque, the grand dame of our lifestyle section, we witnessed the unfolding story of Bukas Loob sa Diyos (BLD). We were deeply touched by the testimonies of members who have served this charismatic community here for more than three decades.
From the stories told, we realize that our greatest strength has never been about individualism. Over the years, watching how local faith-based communities like BLD, cultural networks, and neighborhood circles operate on the ground has reshaped our view of what keeps a city whole.
Resilience is not just about bouncing back from hardship, but about the quiet, deliberate choice to refuse to carry the weight alone. The story of Nikki’s medical scare last year, which occurred right in the middle of the book’s conceptualization, visibly moved the crowd. Through this and many other stories of triumph over despair, we were reminded that when people bind themselves together through shared values and spiritual grace, they build an invisible safety net. They create spaces where vulnerability is met with sanctuary, and individual burdens are lightened because someone else is willing to help carry them.
BLD celebrated it three decades by coming out with a coffee-table book, “Witnessing: Three Decades of Faith,” at the well-appointed heritage house turned events place, Tio Nonings at Juna Subdivision. The room was packed with Titos and Titas who made up this faith-based family.
Witnessing these communities endure and adapt over decades proves that our true regional wealth is human connection. It reminds us that togetherness is the real infrastructure of Davao—a living fabric woven every single time ordinary people decide to show up, hold space, and walk side by side through the shifting seasons of life.
This is what matters.
